Functions: Asking and giving / refusing permission
Which ones are OK to ask?
Which ones may be refused?
有些事情不能直接做,需要先问对方可不可以。英语里这种表达通常要比中文更明确、更礼貌。
中文和英文的差别
中文里,有时候我们会说得比较直接:“我用一下你的电脑。”“我借一下你的车。”
但英语里,尤其是在英国学校、寄宿家庭或朋友家里,最好先用一个完整的请求句。
Can I ...?Can I use your laptop?
Could I ...?Could I borrow your bike, please?
Is it OK if I ...?Is it OK if I come with you?
Would it be alright if I ...?Would it be alright if I used your tablet?
英语里的礼貌感不只来自 please,也来自句型本身。
先看清楚三种功能
AP = Asking permission 请求许可
说明你想做什么,问对方可不可以。
GP = Giving permission 同意许可
可以直接同意,也可以加条件。
RP = Refusing permission 拒绝许可
用 sorry / I’m afraid 开头,再说明理由,听起来更自然。
常用请求句 Useful Permission Phrases
Exercise 13
Put the dialogues in the correct order. Write the numbers 1–4.
2. Then ask if you can ask: Can I ask you something?
3. Then make the request: Can I ...? / Will you let me ...?
4. Then hear the answer: Yes / No / I’m afraid ...
Dialogue 1
Dialogue 2
Exercise 14
Mark the sentences AP (asking permission), GP (giving permission) or RP (refusing permission).
Will you let me use your mobile?
Yeah, sure. Of course I will.
Can I borrow your bike, please?
No, sorry. I need it.
Can I use your laptop, please?
Yes, you can, but I want it back tomorrow.
Is it OK if I borrow this necklace?
Yeah, but be really careful with it, OK?
Role Play Builder
Work in pairs. Act out short conversations. Ask each other for permission. Use the ideas below, or come up with your own idea.
Useful request:
Can I ...?
Is it OK if I ...?
Could I ...?
在真实学校里,copy homework 通常不合适。更好的说法是 ask for help 或 check answers.
Could you help me with this question?
Can I check my answers with yours?
Could you explain this part to me?
Dialogue:
Useful Examples 这样说更自然
Question: You want to use your friend’s tablet. How can you ask?
B: Sure. What is it?
A: Is it OK if I use your tablet for a minute?
B: Yeah, sure, but please be careful with it.
A: Thanks. I’ll give it back soon.
Question: You want to borrow your friend’s bike, but they need it. What might happen?
B: Sorry, I need it this afternoon.
A: OK, no problem. Maybe next time.
Question: You need help with homework. How can you ask in a better way?
B: Sure. Which question is difficult?
A: This one. I don’t understand it.
B: OK, let’s look at it together.